Sunday, August 31, 2008

Thoughts For The Day~*~A New World ^*^*^ August 31, 2008

~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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A New World
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"W
e have entered the world of the Spirit. 
Our next function is to grow in understanding
and effectiveness. 
This is not an overnight matter. 
It should continue for our lifetime. 
Continue to watch for selfishness, dishonesty,
resentment, and fear. 
When these crop up, we ask God at once to remove them. 
We discuss them with someone immediately
and make amends quickly if we have harmed anyone. 
Then we resolutely turn our thoughts
to someone we can help."
1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 84

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Thought to C
onsider . . .

W
ithin our wonderful new world,
we have found freedom from our fatal obsession.



*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
F I T  =  Faith, Intuition, and Trust


*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

Pathway
From "He Had Been Listening":

"In thinking all this over, it finally became obvious to me that the God I thought had judged and damned me had done nothing of the sort. He had been listening, and in His own good time His answer came. His answer was threefold: the opportunity for a life of sobriety; Twelve Steps to practice, in order to attain and maintain that life of sobriety; fellowship within the program, ever ready to sustain and help me each twenty-four- hour day.

" St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada"

1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 30th printing 2004, pg. 11

*~*~*~*~*^Daily Reflections^*~*~*~*~*
A UNIQUE PROGRAM

"Alcoholics Anonymous will never have a professional class. We  have gained some understanding of the ancient words "Freely ye have received, freely give." We have discovered that at the point of professionalism, money and spirituality do not mix.

TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 166

I believe that Alcoholics Anonymous stands alone in the treatment of alcoholism because it is based solely on the principle of one alcoholic sharing with another alcoholic. This is what makes the program unique.  When I decided that I wanted to stay sober, I called a woman who I knew was a sober member of A.A., and she carried the message of Alcoholics Anonymous to me.  She received no monetary compensation, but rather was paid by staying sober another day herself.  Today I could ask for no payment other than another day free from alcohol, so in that respect, I am generously paid for my labor.

Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
*~*~*~*~*^As Bill Sees It^*~*~*~*~*
Morning Thoughts

Many newcomers, having experienced little but constant deflation, feel a
growing conviction that human will is of no value whatever. They have become persuaded, sometimes rightly so, that many problems besides alcohol will not yield to a headlong assault powered only by the individual's will. However, there are certain things which the individual alone can do. All by himself, and in the light of his own circumstances, he needs to develop the quality of willingness. When he acquires willingness, he is the only one who can then make the decision to exert himself along spiritual lines. Trying to do this is actually an act of his own will. It is a right use of this faculty.
Indeed, all of A.A.'s Twelve Steps require our sustained and personal
exertion to conform to their principles and so, we trust, to God's will.

TWELVE AND TWELVE, p. 40
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book Quote ^*~*~*~*~*

"Do not let any prejudice you may have against spiritual terms deter
you from honestly asking yourself what they mean to you. At the
start, this was all we needed to commence spiritual growth, to
effect our first conscious relation with God as we understood Him.
Afterward, we found ourselves accepting many things which then
seemed entirely out of reach. That was growth, but if we wished to
grow we had to begin somewhere. So we used our own conception, however limited it was."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, We Agnostics, pg. 47~

*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

"Call on new prospects while they are still jittery. They may be more
receptive when depressed. See them alone if possible. Tell them enough about your drinking habits and experiences to encourage them to speak of
themselves. if they wish to talk, let them do so. If they are not
communicative, talk about the troubles liquor has caused you, being careful
not to moralize or lecture. When they see you know all about the drinking
game, commence to describe yourself as an alcoholic and tell them how you
learned you were sick." Am I ready to talk about myself to new prospects?

Meditation for the Day

Try not to give way to criticism, blame, scorn, or judgment of others when
you are trying to help them. Effectiveness in helping others depends on
controlling yourself. You may be swept away by a temporary natural urge to
criticize or blame, unless you keep a tight rein on your emotions. You should
have a firm foundation of spiritual living which makes you truly humble, if
you are going to really help other people. Go easy on them and be hard on
yourself. That is the way you can be used most to uplift a despairing spirit.
And seek no personal recognition for what you are used by God to accomplish.

Prayer for the Day


I pray that I may try to avoid judgment and criticism. I pray that I may
always try to build up others instead of tearing them down.

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Saturday, August 30, 2008

Thoughts For The Day~*~Fear ^*^*^ August 30, 2008

~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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Fear
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"W
hen, with God's help, we calmly accepted our lot,
then we found we could live at peace with ourselves
and show others who still suffered the same fears
that they could get over them, too.
We found that freedom from fear was more important
than freedom from want."
1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,  p.
122
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Thought to C
onsider . . .

Courage is the willingness to accept fear and act anyway.



*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
F E A R  =  Face Everything And Recover


*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

Others
From "The Three Legacies of Alcoholics Anonymous":

"A group of laymen whose combined religious training and experience had been small indeed had produced a volume which described release from alcoholism by spiritual means. What would our Catholic friends think? We had not the slightest inkling.

"Then the good news came. By messenger we had sent the book Alcoholics Anonymous to the Catholic Committee on Publications in the New York Archdiocese. Our messenger was Morgan R., released only a few weeks before from Greystone asylum and himself the first Catholic to put in an appearance in New York [A.A.].  Not long after he returned with wonderful things to tell us.

"The Committee, he said, had nothing but the best to say of our efforts. From their point of view the book was perfectly all right "

2001 AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age, pgs. 168-69


*~*~*~*~*^Daily Reflections^*~*~*~*~*
THE ONLY REQUIREMENT. . .

"At one time. . .every A.A. group had many membership rules.   Everybody was scared witless that something or somebody would capsize the boat. . .The total list was a mile long.   If all those rules had been in effect
everywhere, nobody could have possibly joined A.A. at all,. . ."


TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS,   p. 139-140

I'm grateful that the Third Tradition only requires of me a desire to stop
drinking.   I had been breaking promises for years.   In the Fellowship I
didn't have to make promises, I didn't have to concentrate. It only required
my attending one meeting, in a foggy condition, to know I was home.   I
didn't have to pledge undying love.   Here, strangers hugged me.   "It gets
better," they said, and "One day at a time, you can do it."   They were no
longer strangers, but caring friends. I ask God to help me to reach out to
people desiring sobriety, and to, please keep me grateful!


Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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~*~*~*~*^As Bill Sees It^*~*~*~*~*

Let Go Absolutely

After failure on my part to dry up any drunks, Dr. Silkworth reminded me of
Professor William James's observation that truly transforming spiritual
experiences are nearly always rounded on calamity and collapse. "Stop
preaching at them," Dr. Silkworth said, "and give them the hard medical facts first. This may soften them up at depth so that they will be willing to do
anything to get well. Then they may accept those spiritual ideas of yours,
and even a Higher Power."

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We beg of you to be fearless and thorough from the very start. Some of us
have tried to hold on to our old ideas, and the result was nil -- until we
let go absolutely.

1. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 13 - 2. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 58

*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book Quote ^*~*~*~*~*

"...I humbly offered myself to God, as I then I understood Him, to do
with me as He would. I placed myself unreservedly under His care and
direction. I admitted for the first time that of myself I was
nothing; that without Him I was lost. I ruthlessly faced my sins and
became willing to have my new-found Friend take them away, root and
branch."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Bill's Story, pg. 13~
*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

"Practical experience shows that nothing will so much ensure immunity from drinking as extensive work with other alcoholics. Carry the message to other alcoholics. You can help when no one else can. You can secure their
confidence when others fail. Life will take on a new meaning for you. To
watch people recover, to see them help others in turn, to watch loneliness
vanish, to see a fellowship grow about you, to have a host of friends, this
is an experience you must not miss." Am I always ready and willing to help
other alcoholics?

Meditation for the Day


One secret of abundant living is the art of giving. The paradox of life is
that the more you give, the more you have. If you lose your life in the
service of others, you will save it. You can give abundantly and so live
abundantly. You are rich in one respect-you have a spirit that is
inexhaustible. Let no mean or selfish thought keep you from sharing this
spirit. Of love, of help, of understanding, and of sympathy, give and keep
giving. Give your personal ease and comfort, your time, your money, and most of all, yourself. And you will be living abundantly.

Prayer for the Day


I pray that I may live to give. I pray that I may learn this secret of
abundant living.

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Friday, August 29, 2008

Thoughts For The Day~*~Step One ^*^*^ August 29, 2008

~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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Step One
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"N
o other kind of bankruptcy is like this one.
Alcohol, now become the rapacious creditor,
bleeds us all of self-sufficiency and all will
to resist its demands.
Once this stark fact is accepted,
our bankruptcy as going human concerns is complete.
But upon entering AA we soon take quite another view
of this absolute humiliation.
We perceive that only through utter defeat
are we able to take our first steps
toward liberation and strength.
Our admissions of personal powerlessness
finally turn out to be firm bedrock upon which
happy and purposeful lives may be built."
1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,  p.
21
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Thought to C
onsider . . .

Once we clear a hurdle, it doesn't seem so high.



*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
S T E P S   =   Solutions To Every Problem in Sobriety

*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

 
Reality I Had Feared
From: "No Man Is An Island" 

I was spiritually bankrupt long before AA entered my life and long before alcoholism took over like a parasite under my skin. I had nothing, no faith at all to cling to. I had no faith in man, because along with my drinking I had lost faith in myself. I trusted no one, for others were but a mere reflection of my own self, and I could not trust me. 

I got sober in AA, and, like a miracle, the warm flood of reality I had feared for so long flowed over me, and I was no longer afraid. I began to wonder why. Along with sobriety, something new had come into my life. 

I began to have concern for others. This word "concern," along with its sister consideration, was an alien thing to me. I had believed myself capable of falling in love; I had thought myself a loving mother; but these emotions, I now perceive, had been reflections of my own self-interest. Nothing penetrated beyond my self. I began, in early sobriety, to feel compassion for other drunks, then for my children, then for my ex-husband. This compassion, a feeling accompanied later by love, opened the door to a huge fortress within me which had been forever locked. 

1973, AAWS, Inc., Came to Believe…, pages 118-119.

*~*~*~*~*^Daily Reflections^*~*~*~*~*
I CHOOSE ANONYMITY

We are sure that humility, expressed by anonymity, is the greatest safeguard
that Alcoholics Anonymous can ever have.

TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 187

Since there are no rules in A.A. I place myself where I want to be, and so I
choose anonymity.   I want my God to use me, humbly, as one of His tools in
this program.   Sacrifice is the art of giving of myself freely, allowing
humility to replace my ego.   With sobriety, I suppress that urge to cry out
to the world,   "I am a member of A.A." and I experience inner joy and peace.   I let people see the changes in me and hope they will ask what happened to me.   I place the principles of spirituality ahead of judging, fault-finding, and criticism.   I want love and caring in my group, so I can grow.


Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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Middle of the Road

"In some sections of A.A., anonymity is carried to the point of real
absurdity. Members are on such a poor basis of communication that they don't even know each other's last names or where each lives. It's like the cell of an underground.
"In other sections, we see exactly the reverse. It is difficult to restrain
A.A.'s from shouting too much before the whole public, by going on
spectacular 'lecture tours' to play the big shot.
"However, I know that from these extremes we slowly pull ourselves onto a
middle ground. Most lecture-giving members do not last too long, and the
super anonymous people are apt to come out of hiding respecting their A.A.
friends, business associates, and the like. I think the long-time trend is
toward the middle of the road - which is probably where we should be."

LETTER, 1959

*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"The less people tolerated us, the more we withdrew from society,
from life itself. As we became subjects of King Alcohol, shivering
denizens of his mad realm, the chilling vapor that is loneliness
settled down. It thickened, ever becoming blacker. Some of us
sought out sordid places, hoping to find understanding companionship
and approval. Momentarily we didâۉ€ then would come oblivion and
the awful awakening to face the hideous Four Horsemenâۉ€ Terror,
Bewilderment, Frustration, Despair."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, A Vision For You, pg. 151~
*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

"We cannot get along without prayer and meditation. on awakening, let us
think about the twenty-four hours ahead. We consider our plans for the day.
Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking. Our thought lives will be
placed on a much higher plane when we start the day with prayer and
meditation. We conclude this period of meditation with a prayer that we will
be shown through the day what our next step is to be. The basis of all our
prayers is: Thy will be done in me and through me today." Am I sincere in my
desire to do God's will today?

Meditation for the Day

Breathe in the inspiration of goodness and truth. It is the spirit of
honesty, purity, unselfishness, and love. It is readily available if we are
willing to accept it wholeheartedly. God has given us two things-His spirit
and the power of choice-to accept or not, as we will. We have the gift of
free will. When we choose the path of selfishness and geed and pride, we are
refusing to accept God's spirit. When we choose the path of love and service,
we accept God's spirit and it flows into us and makes all things new.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may choose the right way. I pray that I may try to follow it to
the end.

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Thursday, August 28, 2008

Thoughts For The Day~*~Self-appraisal ^*^*^ August 28, 2008

~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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Self-appraisal
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"I
used to be a champ at unrealistic self-appraisal.
I wanted to look only at the part of my life
which seemed good.
Then I would greatly exaggerate whatever virtues
I supposed I had attained.
Next I would congratulate myself on the grand job
I was doing.
So my unconscious self-deception never failed
to turn my few good assets into serious liabilities.
This astonishing process was always a pleasant one. . .
I was falling straight back
into the pattern of my drinking days. . .
I shall forever regret the damage I did to people around me.
Indeed, I still tremble when I realize
what I might have done to AA and to its future."
Bill W., June 1961
1988AAGrapevine, The Language of the Heart,  pp.
256-7
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Thought to C
onsider . . .

When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.



*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
A A  =  Altered Attitudes


*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
 

Tornado Technique
From: "When AA Came of Age" 

Still another famous early itinerant was Irwin M., a Cleveland AA who had become a champion salesman of Venetian blinds to department stores in the deep South. He used to range a territory bounded by Atlanta and Jacksonville on one side and Indianapolis, Birmingham, and New Orleans on the other. Irwin weighed 250 pounds and was full of energy and gusto. The prospect of Irwin, as a missionary, scared us rather badly. At the New York Headquarters we had on file a long list of topers in many a Southern city and town, people who had not been personally visited. Irwin had long since broken all the rules of caution and discreet approach to newcomers, so it was with reluctance that we gave him the list. Then we waited - but not for long. Irwin ran them down, every single one, with his home-crashing tornado technique. Day and night, besides, he wrote letters to his prospects and got them to writing each other. 

Stunned but happy Southerners began to send their thanks to Headquarters. As Irwin himself reported, many a first family of the South had been an easy pushover. He had cracked the territory wide open and had started or stimulated many an original group.

1985, AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age, page 25

*~*~*~*~*^Daily Reflections^*~*~*~*~*
LIGHTENING THE BURDEN

showing others who suffer how we were given help is the very thing which
makes life seem so worth while to us now. . . . the dark past is . . . the
key to life and happiness for others.

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 124

Since I have been sober, I have been healed of many pains: deceiving my
partner, deserting my best friend, and spoiling my mother's hopes for my
life.   In each case someone in the program told me of a similar problem, and
I was able to share what happened to me.   When my story was told, both of us got up with lighter hearts.


Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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Hard on Ourselves, Considerate of Others

We cannot disclose anything to our wives or our parents which will hurt them and make them unhappy. We have no right to save our own skins at their expense. Such damaging parts of our story we tell to someone else who will understand, yet be unaffected. The rule is, we must be hard on ourselves, but always considerate of others.

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Good judgment will suggest that we ought to take our time in making amends to our families. It may be unwise at first to rehash certain harrowing episodes. While we may be quite willing to reveal the very worst, we must be sure to remember that we cannot buy our own peace of mind at the expense of others.

1. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 74 - 2. TWELVE AND TWELVE, p. 84

*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book Quote ^*~*~*~*~*

"Everybody knows that those in bad health, and those who seldom play,
do not laugh much. So let each family play together or separately as
much as their circumstances warrant. We are sure God wants us to be
happy, joyous, and free."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, The Family Afterward, pg. 132~

*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

"We must continue to take personal inventory and continue to set right any
new mistakes as we go along. We should grow in understanding and
effectiveness. This is not an overnight matter; it should continue for our
lifetime. Continue to watch for selfishness, dishonesty, resentment, and
fear. When these crop up, we ask God at once to remove them. We must not rest on our laurels. We are headed for trouble if we do. We are not cured of
alcoholism. What we really have is a daily reprieve, contingent on the
maintenance of our spiritual condition." Am I checking my spiritual condition daily?

Meditation for the Day

Happiness cannot be sought directly; it is a byproduct of love and service.
Service is a law of our being. With love in your heart, there is always some
service to other people. A life of power and joy and satisfaction is built on
love and service. Persons who hate or are selfish are going against the law
of their own being. They are cutting themselves off from God and other
people. little acts of love and encouragement, of service and help, erase the
rough places of fife and help to make the path smooth. If we do these things,
we cannot help having our share of happiness.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may give my share of love and service. I pray that I may not
grow weary in my attempts to do the right thing.

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