Saturday, July 27, 2013

Thoughts For The Day~*~Trouble ^*^*^ July 28, 2013


~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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Trouble
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"T
here was a time when we ignored trouble,
hoping it would go away.
Or, in fear and depression, we ran from it,
but found it was still with us.
Often, full of unreason, bitterness, and blame,
we fought back.
These mistaken attitudes, powered by alcohol,
guaranteed our destruction,
unless they were altered. . .
Then came AA.
Surprisingly, we found that our troubles could,
under God's grace,
be converted into unimaginable blessings."
Bill W., Letter, 1966
1967AAWS, As Bill Sees It, p. 110
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Thought to C
onsider . . .

T
he peaks and valleys of my life
have become gentle rolling hills.


*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
S O B E R  =  Son Of a Basket, Everything's Real


*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~* ~*
 

Why?
From: "There Is A Solution" 

Why does he behave like this? If hundreds of experiences have shown him that one drink means another debacle with all its attendant suffering and humiliation, why is it he takes that one drink? Why can't he stay on the water wagon? What has become of the common sense and will power that he still sometimes displays with respect to other matters?

Perhaps there never will be a full answer to these questions. Opinions vary considerably as to why the alcoholic reacts differently from normal people. We are not sure why, once a certain point is reached, little can be done for him. We cannot answer the riddle. 

2001, AAWS, Inc., Alcoholics Anonymous, page 22

*~*~*~*~*^Daily Reflections^*~*~*~*~*
THOSE WHO STILL SUFFER

Let us resist the proud assumption that since God has enabled
us to do well in one area we are destined to be a channel of
saving grace for everybody.


A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 232

A. A. groups exist to help alcoholics achieve sobriety. Large
or small, firmly established or brand-new, speaker,
discussion or study group has but one reason for being: to
carry the message to the still-suffering alcoholic. The group
exists so that the alcoholic can find a new way of life, a
life abundant in happiness, joy, and freedom. To recover,
most alcoholics need the support of a group of other
alcoholics who share their experience, strength and hope.
Thus my sobriety, and our program's survival, depend on my
determination to put first things first


Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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~*~*~*~*^As Bill Sees It^*~ *~*~*~*
Never the Same Again

It was discovered that when one alcoholic had planted in the mind of another the true nature of his malady, that person could never be the same again. Following every spree, he would say to himself, "Maybe those A.A.'s were right." After a few such experiences, often before the onset of extreme difficulties, he would return to us convinced.
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In the first years, those of us who sobered up in A.A. had been grim and
utterly hopeless cases. But then we began to have success with milder
alcoholics and even some potential alcoholics. Younger folks appeared. Lots of people turned up who still had jobs, homes, health, and even good social standing.
Of course, it was necessary for these newcomers to hit bottom emotionally. But they did not have to hit every possible bottom in order to admit that they were licked.


1. TWELVE AND TWELVE, pp. 23-24 - 2. A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 199
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"Now we go out to our fellows and repair the damage done in the
past. We attempt to sweep away the debris which has accumulated out
of our effort to live on self-will and run the show ourselves. If we
haven't the will to do this, we ask until it comes. Remember it was
agreed at the beginning we would go to any lengths for victory over
alcohol."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Into Action, pg.76~

*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~ *~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

To continue the paraphrase of the psalm: "The judgments of
the Twelve Steps are true and righteous altogether. More to
be desired are they than whiskey, yea, than much fine whiskey,
sweeter also than wine. Moreover, by them are alcoholics
warned and in keeping of them there is great reward. Who can
understand our alcoholism? Cleanse us from secret faults. Keep
us from presumptuous resentments. Let them not have dominion
over us. Then shall we be upright and free of the great
transgression." Am I resolved that liquor will never again
have dominion over me?

Meditation for the Day

God can be your shield. Then no problems of the world can harm
you. Between you and all scorn and indignity from others is your
trust in God, like a shining shield. Nothing can th en have the
power to spoil your inward peace. With this shield, you can
attain this inward peace quickly, in your surroundings as well
as in your heart. With this inward peace, you do not need to
resent the person who troubles you. Instead, you can overcome
the resentment in your own mind which may have been aroused by
that person.

Prayer for the Day


I pray that I may strive for inward peace. I pray that I may not
be seriously upset, no matter what happens around me.

Hazelden Foundation PO Box 176 Center City, MN 55012


Friday, July 26, 2013

Thoughts For The Day~*~Way of Life ^*^*^ July 27, 2013


~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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Way of Life
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"T
he AA way of life is the way we always
should have tried to live.
'Grant us the serenity to accept the things
we cannot change,
courage to change the things we can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.'
These thoughts become part of our daily lives.
They are not ideas of resignation
but of the recognition of certain
basic facts of living."
1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, pp. 382-3
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Thought to C
onsider . . .

E
very day is a gift.
That is why we call it the present.

 

*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
B E S T  =  Been Enjoying Sobriety Today?

*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

Progress
From "A Glacier Melts":

"A.A. provided for me a means by which I could overcome the compulsion to drink and, more important, a means by which I could achieve a personality change or spiritual awakening--- a surrender to life. Though I have had problems and deep troubles since that summer ten years ago, my faith has not been shaken. I cannot say that I have found God as I understand Him, but rather that I have faith in Something which remains a mystery to me and which I continue to seek. - Fresno, California, USA"

1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 30th printing 2004, pg. 59

*~*~*~*~*^Daily Reflections^*~*~*~*~*
GIVING FREELY

We will make every personal sacrifice necessary to insure the unity of Alcoholics Anonymous. We will do this because we have learned to love God and one another. 
A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 234


To be self-supporting through my own contributions was never a strong characteristic during my days as a practicing alcoholic.  The giving of time or money always demanded a price tag.

As a newcomer I was told "we have to give it away in order to keep it."  As I began to adopt the principles of Alcoholics Anonymous in my life, I soon found it was a privilege to give to the Fellowship as an expression of the gratitude I felt in my heart.  My love of God and of others became the motivating factor in my life, with no thought of return.  I realize now that giving freely is God's way of expressing Himself through me
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Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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~*~*~*~*^As Bill Sees It^*~*~*~*~*
Reason - a Bridge to Faith

We were squarely confronted with the question of faith. We couldn't duck the issue. Some of us had already walked along the bridge of reason toward the desired shore of faith, where friendly hands stretched out in welcome. We were grateful that reason had brought us so far. But, somehow, we couldn't quite step ashore. Perhaps we had been relying too heavily on reason that last mile, and we did not like to lose our support.
Yet, without knowing it, had we not been brought to where we stood by a
certain kind of faith? For did we not believe in our own reasoning? Did we not have confidence in our ability to think? What was that but a sort of faith? Yes, we had been faithful, abjectly faithful to the god of reason. So, in one way or another, we discovered that faith had been involved all the time!

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, pp. 53-54
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"Step Eleven suggests prayer and meditation. We shouldn't be shy on this matter of prayer. Better men than we are using it constantly."

Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Into Action, pg. 85
 
*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

To paraphrase the psalm: "We alcoholics declare the power of liquor and drunkenness showeth its handiwork. Day unto day uttereth hangovers and night unto night showeth suffering.
The law of A.A. is perfect, converting the drunk. The
testimony of A.A. is sure, making wise the simple. The
statutes of A.A. are right, rejoicing the heart. The program
of A.A. is pure, enlightening the eyes. The fear of the first
drink is clean, enduring forever." Have I any doubt about the power of liquor?

Meditation for the Day

"Walk humbly with thy Lord." Walking with God means practicing the presence of God in your daily affairs. It means asking God for strength to face each new day. It means turning to Him
often during the day in prayer for yourself and for other
people. It means thanking Him at night for the blessings you
have received during the day. Nothing can seriously upset you
if you are "walking with God." You can believe that He is
beside you in spirit, to help you and to guide you on your
way.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may try to walk humbly with God. I pray that I
may turn to Him often as to a close friend.


Hazelden Foundation PO Box 176 Center City, MN 55012

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Thoughts For The Day~*~The Gift ^*^*^ July 26, 2013


~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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The Gift
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"W
hen asked, 'Are there any conditions?'
we joyfully reply, 'No, not a one.'
When skeptically he comes back saying,
'But certainly there must be things
that I have to do and believe,' we quickly answer,
'In Alcoholics Anonymous there are no
musts.'
Cynically, perhaps, he then inquires,
'What is all this going to cost me?'
We are able to laugh and say,
'Nothing at all, there are no fees and dues.'
Thus, in a brief hour, is our friend disarmed
of his suspicion and rebellion . . .
Alcoholics Anonymous is saying,
'We have something precious to give,
if only you will receive.'
That is all."
Bill W., February 1948
1988AAGrapevine, The Language of the Heart, p. 79
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Thought to C
onsider . . .

Sobriety is a gift, not a right

*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
G I F T S  =  Getting It From The Steps

*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

Stories
From "The Three Legacies of Alcoholics Anonymous":

"We had not gone much farther with the text of the book when it was evident that something more was needed. There would have to be a story or case history section. We would have to produce evidence in the form of living proof, written testimonials of our membership itself. It was felt also that the story section could identify us with the distant reader in a way that the text itself might not. At this point Dr. Bob and the Akronites played a vital role. The Akron group was the larger and had more case history material, and the means of putting it into story form now appeared. Two years earlier a former newspaperman, Jim S., had been lifted off skid row and nursed back to health and sobriety. Jim and Dr. Bob went after all the Akronites who had substantial sobriety records for testimonial material. In most cases Jim interviewed the prospects and wrote their stories for them. Dr. Bob wrote his own. By January the Akronites had produced eighteen fine stories."

2001 AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age, pg. 164

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THE "WORTH" OF SOBRIETY

Every A.A. group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.

TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS  p. 160

When I go shopping I look at the prices and if I need what I see, buy it and pay.  Now that I am supposed to be in rehabilitation, I have to straighten out my life.  When I go to a meeting, I take a coffee with sugar and milk, sometimes more than one.  But at the collection time, I am either too busy to take money out of  my purse, or I do not have enough, but I am there because I need this meeting.  I heard someone suggest dropping the price of a beer into the basket, and I thought, that's too much!  I almost never give one dollar.  Like many others, I rely on the more generous members to finance the Fellowship.  I forget that it takes money to rent the meeting room, buy my milk, sugar and cups.  I will pay, without hesitation, ninety cents for a cup of coffee at a restaurant after the meeting; I always have money for that.  So, how much is my sobriety and my inner peace worth?
Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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The Fellowship's Future

"It seems proved that A.A. can stand on its own feet anywhere and under any conditions. It has outgrown any dependence it might once have had upon the personalities or efforts of a few of the older members like me. New, able, and vigorous people keep coming to the surface, turning up where they are needed. Besides, A.A. has reached enough spiritual maturity to know that its final dependence is upon God."
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Clearly, our first duty to A.A.'s future is to maintain in full strength what we now have. Only the most vigilant caretaking can assure this. Never should we be lulled into complacent self-satisfaction by the wide acclaim and success that are everywhere ours. This is the subtle temptation which could render us stagnant today, perchance disintegrate us tomorrow. We have always rallied to meet and transcend failure and crisis. Problems have been our stimulants. How well, though, shall we be able to meet the problems of success?

1. LETTER, 1940 - 2. A.A. TODAY, p. 106
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"We think it no concern of ours what religious bodies our members
identify themselves with as individuals. This should be an entirely
personal affair which each one decides for himself in the light of
past associations, or his present choice."

Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, There Is A Solution, pg. 28
*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

When we come to the end of our lives on earth, we will
take no material thing with us. We will not take one cent
in our cold, dead hands. The only things that we may take
are the things we have given away If we have helped others,
we may take that with us; if we have given of our time and
money for the good of A.A., we may take that with us.
Looking back over our lives, what are we proud of? Not
what we have gained for ourselves, but what few good deeds
we have done. Those are the things that really matter in
the long run. What will I take with me when I go?

Meditation for the Day

"Hallowed be Thy Name." What does that mean to us? Here "name"
is used in the sense of "spirit." The words mean praise to God
for His spirit in the world, making us better. We should be
especially grateful for God's spirit, which gives us the
strength to overcome all that is base in our lives. His spirit
is powerful. It can help us to live a conquering, abundant
life. So we praise and thank Him for His spirit in our lives
and in the lives of others.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may be grateful for God's spirit in me. I pray
that I may try to live in accordance with it.

Hazelden Foundation PO Box 176 Center City, MN 55012


Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Thoughts For The Day~*~New Life ^*^*^ July 25, 2013


~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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New Life
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"W
e die to live.
That is a beautiful paradox straight out of the Biblical idea of being "born again" or "in losing one's life to find it."
When we work at our Twelve Steps,
the old life of guzzling and fuzzy thinking,
and all that goes with it, gradually dies,
and we acquire a different and a better way of life.
As our shortcomings are removed, one life of us dies,
and another life of us lives.
We in AA die to live."

1955AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, 2nd edition., pp. 341-2
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Thought to C
onsider . . .

Life didn't end when I got sober -- it started.


*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
T H I N K  =  The Happiness I Never Knew


*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

Accept My Humanness
From: "A Nourishing Ingredient 

Where humility had formerly stood for a forced feeding on humble pie, it now begins to mean the nourishing ingredient which can give us serenity.

Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, page 74 

How often do I focus on my problems and frustrations? When I am having a "good day" these same problems shrink in importance and my preoccupation with them dwindles. Wouldn't it be better if I could find a key to unlock the "magic" of my "good days" for use on the woes of my "bad days"?

I already have the solution! Instead of trying to run away from my pain and wish my problems away, I can pray for humility! Humility will heal the pain. Humility will take me out of myself. Humility, that strength granted to me by that "power greater than myself," is mine for the asking! Humility will bring balance back into my life. Humility will allow me to accept my humanness joyously. 

1990, AAWS, Inc., Daily Reflections, page 204


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THOSE WHO STILL SUFFER

For us, if we neglect those who are still sick, there is unremitting danger to our own lives and sanity.               
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 151


I know the torment of drinking compulsively to quiet my nerves and my fears.  I also know the pain of white-knuckled sobriety.  Today, I do not forget the unknown person who suffers quietly, withdrawn and hiding in the desperate relief of drinking.  I ask my Higher Power to give me His guidance and the courage to be willing to be His instrument to carry within me compassion and unselfish actions.  Let the group continue to give me the strength to do with others what I cannot do alone.

Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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Praying for Others

While praying sincerely, we still may fall into temptation. We form ideas as to what we think God's will is for other people. We say to ourselves, "This one ought to be cured of his fatal malady" or "That one ought to be relieved of his emotional pain," and we pray for these specific things.
Such prayers, of course, are fundamentally good acts, but often they are
based upon a supposition that we know God's will for the person for whom we pray. This means that side by side with an earnest prayer there can be a certain amount of presumption and conceit in us.
It is A.A.'s experience that particularly in these cases we ought to pray
that God's will, whatever it is, be done for others as well as for ourselves.


TWELVE AND TWELVE, p. 104
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"On awakening let us think about the twenty-four hours ahead. We
consider our plans for the day. Before we begin, we ask God to
direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-
pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. Under these conditions we
can employ our mental faculties with assurance, for after all God
gave us brains to use. Our thought-life will be placed on a much
higher plane when our thinking is cleared of wrong motives."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Into Action, pg. 86~
*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

We are living on borrowed time. We are living today because of A.A. and the
grace of God. And what there is left of our lives we owe to A.A. and to God. We should make the best use we can of our borrowed time and in some small measure pay back for that part of our lives which we wasted before we came into A.A. Our lives from now on are not our own. We hold them in trust for God and A.A. And we must do all we can to forward the great movement that has given us a new lease on life. Am I holding my life in trust for AA.?

Meditation for the Day


You should hold your life in trust for God. Think deeply on what that means. Is anything too much to expect from such a life? Do you begin to see how dedicated a life in trust for God can be? In such a life miracles can happen. if you are faithful, you can believe that God has many good things in store for you. God can be Lord of your life, controller of your days, of your present and your future. Try to act as God guides and leave all results to Him. Do not hold back, but go all out for God and the better life. Make good your trust.

Prayer for the Day


I pray that I may hold my life in trust for God. I pray that I may no longer consider my life as all my own.


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