Thoughts For The Day~*~Working With Others ^*^*^ September 19, 2009

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Working With Others

"Life will take on new meaning.
To watch people recover, to see them help others,
to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship
grow up about you, to have a host of friends -
this is an experience you must not miss.
We know you will not want to miss it."
c. 1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 89
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Thought to Consider . . .

Sobriety is a choice and a treasure.

*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
H E A R T =  Healing, Enjoying, And Recovering, Together

*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

 

Re-examination

From: "Educated Agnostic" 

That was with me the beginning of a new life. It would be difficult, if not impossible, for me to put into words the change that has taken place in me. I have since learned that with many members the change has been almost instantaneous. This was not the case with me. I was tremendously inspired at first, but my basic thinking was not altered that evening nor did I expect any profound change. I felt that while the spiritual aspect of what these men had was not for me, I did believe strongly in the emphasis they put on the need to help others. I felt that if I could have the inspiration of these gatherings and if I could have an opportunity to try to help others that the two together would reinforce my own will power and thus be of tremendous assistance. But gradually, in a manner I cannot explain, I began to re-examine the beliefs I had thought beyond criticism. Almost imperceptibly my whole attitude toward life underwent a silent revolution. I lost many worries and gained confidence. I found myself saying and thinking things that a short time ago I would have condemned as platitudes! A belief in the basic spirituality of life has grown and with it belief in a supreme and guiding power for good. 

2003, AAWS, Inc., Experience, Strength & Hope - Stories from the first three editions of Alcoholics Anonymous, pages 106-107

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ACCEPTANCE

We admitted we couldn't lick alcohol with our own remaining resources,
and so we accepted the further fact that dependence upon a Higher
Power (if only our A.A. group) could do this hitherto impossible
job. The moment we were able to accept these facts fully, our release
from the alcohol compulsion had begun.

AS BILL SEES IT, p. 109

Freedom came to me only with my acceptance that I could turn my will
and my life over to the care of my Higher Power, whom I call God.
Serenity seeped into the chaos of my life when I accepted that what
I was going through was life, and that God would help me through my
difficulties--and much more, as well. Since then He has helped me
through all of my difficulties! When I accept situations as they
are, not as I wish them to be, then I can begin to grow and have
serenity and peace of mind.

Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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Individual Responsibilities

Let us emphasize that our reluctance to fight one another, or anybody else, is not counted as some special virtue which entitles us A.A.'s to feel superior to other people. Nor does this reluctance mean that the members of A.A. are going to back away from their individual responsibilities as citizens. Here they should feel free to act as they see the right upon the public issues of our times.
But when it comes to A.A. as a whole, that's quite a different matter. As a group we do not enter into public controversy, because we are sure that our Society will perish if we do.

TWELVE AND TWELVE, p. 177
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"Let no alcoholic say he cannot recover unless he has his family
back. This just isn't so. In some cases the wife will never come
back for one reason or another. Remind the prospect that his
recovery is not dependent upon people. It is dependent upon his
relationship with God. We have seen men get well whose families have
not returned at all. We have seen others slip when the family came
back too soon."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Working With Others, pg. 99~
*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

Let us continue with Steps Two, Three, and Eleven. We must turn to
a Higher Power for help, because we are helpless ourselves. When we
put our drink problem in God's hands and leave it there, we have made
the most important decision of our lives. From then on, we trust God
for the strength to keep sober. This takes us off the center of the
universe and allows us to transfer our problems to a Power outside
ourselves. By prayer and meditation, we seek to improve our conscious
contact with God. We try to live each day the way we believe God
wants us to live. Am I trusting God for the strength to stay sober?

Meditation for the Day

"These things have I spoken unto you, that your joy may be full."
Even a partial realization of the spiritual life brings much joy. You
feel at home in the world when you are in touch with the Divine Spirit
of the universe. Spiritual experience brings a definite satisfaction.
Search for the real meaning of life by following spiritual laws. God
wants you to have spiritual success and He intends that you have it.
If you live your life as much as possible according to spiritual laws,
you can expect your share of joy and peace, satisfaction and success.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I will find happiness in doing the right thing. I pray that
I will find satisfaction in obeying spiritual laws.

Hazelden Foundation PO Box 176 Center City, MN 55012

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Thoughts For The Day~*~Fellowship ^*^*^*^*^ September 18, 2009

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Fellowship
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"Today, I'm counting my blessings instead of my troubles.
When I walked into the friendly atmosphere
of my first AA meeting, I knew I was where I belonged.
Here were people who had thought and felt as I had.
Here was the understanding I'd been searching for all my life.
These people were my friends,
and I felt their sincere interest in me.
With these new and enlightening doors opening up to me,
I was able to make the eventual decision to stop drinking,
a day at a time -- because I, too, was an alcoholic.
And with this came the only real freedom,
the freedom of truth."
c. 1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 355
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Thought to Consider . . .

If you love someone, tell them now.  
Eternity is time enough for silence.

*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
C A R E =  Comforting And Reassuring Each other

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Camel Metaphor

From: "As Dr. Bob said" 

According to Ed, Dr. Bob would explain prayer by telling how the camels in a caravan would kneel down in the evening, and the men would unload their burdens. In the morning, they would kneel down again, and the men would put the burdens back on. It's the same with prayer, Dr. Bob said. We get on our knees to unload at night. And in the morning when we get on our knees again, God gives us just the load we are able to carry for that day. 

1980, AAWS, Inc., DR. BOB and the Good Oldtimers, page 229

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LOVED BACK TO RECOVERY

Our whole treasured philosophy of self-sufficiency had to be cast aside. This had not been done with old-fashioned willpower; it was instead a matter of developing the willingness to accept these new facts of living.  We neither ran nor fought.  But accept we did.  And then we were free.
                       
BEST OF THE GRAPEVINE, Vol. 1, p. 198

I can be free of my old enslaving self.  After a while I recognize, and believe in, the good within myself.  I see that I have been loved back to recovery by my Higher Power, who envelops me.  My Higher Power becomes that source of love and strength that is performing a continuing miracle in me.  I am sober . . . and I am grateful.

Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
*~*~*~*~*^As Bill Sees It^*~*~*~*~*
"Fearless and Searching"

My self-analysis has frequently been faulty. Sometimes I've failed to share my defects with the right people; at other times, I've confessed their defects, rather than my own; and at still other times, my confession of defects has been more in the nature of loud complaints about my circumstances and my problems.

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When A.A. suggests a fearless moral inventory, it must seem to every newcomer that more is being asked of him than he can do. Every time he tries to look within himself, Pride says, "You need not pass this way," and Fear says, "You dare not look!"
But pride and fear of this sort turn out to be bogeymen, nothing else. Once we have a complete willingness to take inventory, and exert ourselves to do the job thoroughly, a wonderful light falls upon this foggy scene. As we persist, a brand-new kind of confidence is born, and the sense of relief at finally facing ourselves is indescribable.

1. GRAPEVINE, JUNE 1958 - 2. TWELVE AND TWELVE, pp. 49-50
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"Life will take on new meaning. To watch people recover, to see them
help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up
about you, to have a host of friendsâ€"this is an experience you
must not miss."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Working With Others, pg. 89~

*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

Step One is, "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol-that our
lives had become unmanageable." This step states the membership
requirement of A.A. We must admit that our lives are disturbed. We
must accept the fact that we are helpless before the power of alcohol.
We must admit that we are licked as far as drinking is concerned and
that we need help. We must be willing to accept the bitter fact that
we cannot drink like normal people. And we must make, as gracefully
as possible, a surrender to the inevitable fact that we must stop
drinking. Is it difficult for me to admit that I am different from
normal drinkers?

Meditation for the Day

"Show us the way, O' Lord, and let us walk in Thy paths." There seems
to be a right way to live and a wrong way You can make a practical
test. When you live the right way, things seem to work out well for
you. When you live the wrong way, things seem to work out badly for
you. You seem to take out of life about what you put into it. if you
disobey the laws of nature, the chances are that you will be
unhealthy. If you disobey the spiritual and moral laws, the chances
are that you will be unhappy. By following the laws of nature and
the spiritual laws of honesty, purity, unselfishness, and love, you
can expect to be reasonably healthy and happy.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may try to live the right way. I pray that I may follow
the path that leads to a better life.

Hazelden Foundation PO Box 176 Center City, MN 55012

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Thoughts For The Day~*~Restraint ^*^*^*^*^ September 17, 2009

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Restraint
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"Our first objective will be the development of self-restraint.
This carries a top priority rating.
When we speak or act hastily or rashly,
the ability to be fair-minded and tolerant evaporates on the spot.
One unkind tirade or one willful snap judgment
can ruin or relation with another person for a whole day,
or maybe a whole year.
Nothing pays off like restraint of tongue and pen."
c. 1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 91
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Thought to Consider . . .

The tongue must be heavy indeed,
because so few people can hold it.

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H A L T =  Honestly, Actively, Lovingly, Tolerant

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Found the Door

From: "Twice-Gifted" 

My physical being has certainly undergone a transformation, but the major transformation has been spiritual. The hopelessness has been replaced by abundant hope and sincere faith. The people of Alcoholics Anonymous have provided a haven where, if I remain aware and keep my mind quiet long enough, my Higher Power leads me to amazing realizations. I find joy in my daily life, in being of service, in simply being. I have found rooms full of wonderful people, and for me each and every one of the Big Book's promises have come true. The things that I have learned from my own experience, from the Big Book, and from my friends in AA - patience, acceptance, honesty, humility, and true faith in a Power greater than myself - are the tools I use today to live my life, this precious life. 

Today my life is filled with miracles big and small, not one of which would ever have come to pass had I not found the door of Alcoholics Anonymous. 

2001, AAWS, Inc., Alcoholics Anonymous, page 475

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FREEDOM FROM FEAR

When, with God's help, we calmly accepted our lot, then we found we could live at peace with ourselves and show others who still suffered the same fears that they could get over them, too. We  found that freedom from fear was more important than freedom from want.

TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 122

Material values ruled my life for many years during my active alcoholism.  I believed that all of my possessions would make me happy, yet I still felt bankrupt after I obtained them.  When I first came into A.A., I found out about a new way of living.  As a result of learning to trust others, I began to believe in a power greater than myself.  Having faith freed me from the bondage of self.  As material gains were replaced by the gifts of the spirit, my life became manageable.  I then chose to share my experiences with other alcoholics.

Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.
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Inward Reality

It is being constantly revealed, as mankind studies the material world, that its outward appearance is not inward reality at all. The prosaic steel girder is a mass of electrons whirling around each other at incredible speed, and these tiny bodies are governed by precise laws. Science tells us so. We have no reason to doubt it.
When, however, the perfectly logical assumption is suggested that, infinitely beyond the material world as we see it, there is an all powerful, guiding, creative Intelligence, our perverse streak comes to the surface and we set out to convince ourselves that this isn't so. Were our contention true, it would follow that life originated out of nothing, means nothing, and proceeds nowhere.

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, pp. 48-49
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"If we were to live, we had to be free of anger. The grouch and the
brainstorm were not for us. They may be the dubious luxury of normal
men, but for alcoholics these things are poison."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, How It Works, pg. 66~
*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

Step One is, "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol-that
our lives had become unmanageable." This step states the membership
requirement of A.A. We must admit that our lives are disturbed.
We must accept the fact that we are helpless before the power of
alcohol. We must admit that we are licked as far as drinking is
concerned and that we need help. We must be willing to accept the
bitter fact that we cannot drink like normal people. And we must
make, as gracefully as possible, a surrender to the inevitable
fact that we must stop drinking. Is it difficult for me to admit
that I am different from normal drinkers?

Meditation for the Day

"Show us the way, O' Lord, and let us walk in Thy paths." There
seems to be a right way to live and a wrong way You can make a
practical test. When you live the right way, things seem to work
out well for you. When you live the wrong way, things seem to
work out badly for you. You seem to take out of life about what
you put into it. if you disobey the laws of nature, the chances
are that you will be unhealthy. If you disobey the spiritual and
moral laws, the chances are that you will be unhappy. By
following the laws of nature and the spiritual laws of honesty,
purity, unselfishness, and love, you can expect to be reasonably
healthy and happy.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may try to live the right way. I pray that I may
follow the path that leads to a better life.

 

Hazelden Foundation PO Box 176 Center City, MN 55012

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