Thoughts For The Day~*~Wants or Needs?^*^*^*^*^ June 9, 2007

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Wants or Needs?
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"We are taught to differentiate between our wants
(which are never satisfied)
and our needs (which are always provided for).
We cast off the burdens of the past
and the anxieties of the future,
as we begin to live in the present, one day at a time.
We are granted
'the serenity to accept the things we cannot change'
- and thus lose our quickness to anger
and our sensitivity to criticism."
©1976 AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 560
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Thought to consider ...

Don't give up before the miracle happens.

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S T E P S = Solutions To Every Problem in Sobriety


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Beginning

From "'Make it snappy...'":

 

"'I have placed both the operation and myself in God's hands,' Dr. Bob replied [to Bill W]. 'I'm going to do what it takes to get sober and stay that way.'"After leaving the hospital, Dr. Bob had set out to make the rounds of creditors and others he had previously avoided. He told them what had been going on, and expressed his desire to make amends. When he came home that night, his entire outlook had changed. He was happy, and, like Bill, he was finally a free man. It was June 10, 1935 -- now honored as the date when A.A. really began. After months of pursuing drunks, Bill had finally helped
one recover."

(c) 1984, 'PASS IT ON'...The story of Bill Wilson and how the A.A. message reached the world, pgs. 148-149

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LIVING IN THE NOW

First, we try living in the now just in order to stay sober -- and it works.
Once the idea has become a part of our thinking, we find that living life
in 24 hour segments is an effective and satisfying way to handle many other
matters as well.

LIVING SOBER, p. 7

"One Day At A. Time." To a newcomer this and other one-liners of A.A. may
seem ridiculous.   The passwords of the A.A. Fellowship can become lifelines in moments of stress.  Each day can be like a rose unfurling according to the
plan of a Power greater than myself.  My program should be planted in the
right location, just as it will need to be groomed, nourished, and protected
from disease.   My planting will require patience, and my realizing that some
flowers will be more perfect than others.   Each stage of the petals'
unfolding can bring wonder and delight if I do not interfere or let my
expectations override my acceptance -- and this brings serenity.

©Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.©
*~*~*~*~*^As Bill Sees It^*~*~*~*~*
The Rationalizers and the Self-Effacing

We alcoholics are the biggest rationalizers in the world. Fortified with the
excuse that we are doing great things for A.A., we can, through broken
anonymity, resume our old and disastrous pursuit of personal power and
prestige, public honors, and money--the same implacable urges that, when
frustrated, once caused us to drink.
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Dr. Bob was essentially a far more humble person than I, and anonymity came rather easily to him. When it was sure that he was mortally afflicted, some of his friends suggested that there should be a monument erected in honor of him and his wife, Anne--befitting a founder and his lady. Telling me about this, Dr. Bob grinned broadly and said, "God bless 'em. They mean well. But let's you and me get buried just like other folks."
In the Akron cemetery where Dr. Bob and Anne lie, the simple stone says not a word about A.A. This final example of self-effacement is of more permanent worth to A.A. than any amount of public attention or any great monument.

A.A. COMES OF AGE
1. PP. 292-293
2. PP. 136-137

*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"...I would enter upon a new relationship with my Creator; that I
would have the elements of a way of living which answered all my
problems. Belief in the power of God, plus enough willingness,
honesty and humility to establish and maintain the new order of
things, were the essential requirements."

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Bill's Story, Page 13~


*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

We finally came to the bottom. We did not have to be financially broke,
although many of us were. But we were spiritually bankrupt. We had a
soul-sickness, a revulsion against ourselves and against our way of living.
Life had become impossible for us. We had to end it all or do something about it. Am I glad I did something about it?

Meditation for the Day

Faith is not seeing, but believing. I am in a box of space and time and
cannot see spacelessness or eternity. But God is not within the shell of time
and space. He is timeless and spaceless. He cannot be fully comprehended by our finite minds. But we must try to make a union between our purposes and the purposes of God. By trying to merge our minds with the mind of God, a oneness of purpose results. This oneness of purpose puts us in harmony with God and others. Evil comes from being in disharmony with God and good comes from being in harmony with Him.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may be in harmony with God. I pray that I may get into the
stream of goodness in the universe.

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Thoughts For The Day~*~Fellowship ^*^*^*^*^ June 8, 2007

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Fellowship
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"We are average Americans.
All sections of this country and many of its occupations
are represented,
as well as many political, economic, social,
and religious backgrounds.
We are people who normally would not mix.
But there exists among us a fellowship,
a friendliness, and an understanding
which is indescribably wonderful ...
The tremendous fact for every one of us
is that we have discovered a common solution."
©1976 AAWS, Alcholics Anonymous, p. 17
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Thought to Ponder ...

The Journey is the Destination.

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B E S T = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today?

*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*

 

Commitment

From "Destinations":

"That first step is very important, whether it is the first step of a beloved child learning to walk—or the First Step, taken by a man on his way to a new life. Looking into my little ones' faces, I can see the same qualities that we need for the Twelve Steps of A.A.: daring, to stake everything on the attempt; a sense of direction, to be followed with no swerving, no detour; decision, to move forward without hesitation or reservation; determination, to make it all the way. Destination: a full life, a free life, a serene life. – Albany, Australia"

© 1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 30^th printing 2004, pg. 93

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OPENING UP TO CHANGE

Self-searching is the means by which we bring new vision, action, and grace to bear upon the dark and negative side of our natures.  With it comes the development of that kind of humility that makes it possible for us to receive God's help. . . . we find that bit by bit we can discard the old life -- the one that did not work -- for a new life that can and does work under any conditions whatever.

AS BILL SEES IT, pp. 10, 8
      
I have been given a daily reprieve contingent upon my spiritual condition, provided I seek progress, not perfection.  To become ready for change, I practice willingness, opening myself to possibilities of change.  If I realize there are defects that hinder my usefulness in A.A. and toward others, I become ready by meditating and receiving direction.  "Some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas and the result was nil until we let go absolutely" (Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 58).  To let go and let God, I need only surrender my old ways to Him; I no longer fight nor do I try to control, but simply believe that, with God's help, I am changed and affirming this belief makes me ready.  I empty myself to be full of awareness, light, and love, and I am ready to face each day with hope.

©Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.©
*~*~*~*~*^As Bill Sees It^*~*~*~*~*
Between the Extremes

"The real question is whether we can learn anything from our experiences upon which we may grow and help others to grow in the likeness and image of God.
"We know that if we rebel against doing that which is reasonably possible for us, then we will be penalized. And we will be equally penalized if we presume in ourselves a perfection that simply is not there.
"Apparently, the course of relative humility and progress will have to lie
somewhere between these extremes. In our slow progress away from rebellion, true perfection is doubtless several millennia away."

LETTER, 1959
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"We have seen the truth demonstrated again and again: 'Once an
alcoholic, always an alcoholic.' Commencing to drink after a period
of sobriety, we are in a short time as bad as ever."

Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, More About Alcoholism, pg. 33

*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. We always get worse,
never better. We are never cured. Our alcoholism can only be
arrested. No matter how long we have been sober, if we try
liquor again, we're as bad or worse than we ever were. There
is no exception to this rule in the whole history of A.A. We
can never recapture the good times of the past. They are gone
forever. Will I try to recapture them?

Meditation for the Day

Your life has been given to you mainly for the purpose of
training your soul. This life we live is not so much for the
body as for the soul. We often choose the way of life that best
suits the body, not the way that best suits the soul. God wants
you to choose what suits the soul as well as the body. Accept
this belief and a wonderful molding of character is the result.
Reject it and God's purpose for your life is frustrated, and
your spiritual progress is delayed. Your soul is being trained
by the good you choose. Thus the purpose of your life is being
accomplished.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may choose what is good for my soul. I pray that
I may realize God's purpose for my life.

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Thoughts For The Day~*~Freedom^*^*^*^*^ June 7, 2007

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Freedom
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"Through AA, we can experience freedom from self.
After all, it was self ( you, me ) that stood in our own way,
that ran the show and ran ourselves into bankruptcy,
that hurt the ones we loved.
All Twelve Steps of AA are designed to kill the old self
( deflate the old ego )
and build a new, free self."
©1976 AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 459
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Thought to Consider . . .

Within our wonderful new world,
we have found freedom from our fatal obsession.

*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
F I N E = Free, Independent, New and Energetic

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Development

From "The Three Legacies of Alcoholics Anonymous":

"As the chapters were slowly roughed out I read them to the New York group at its weekly meeting in our parlor at Clinton Street, and copies were sent to Dr. Bob for checking and criticisms in Akron, where we had nothing but the warmest support. But in the New York meeting the chapters got a real mauling. I redictated them and Ruth retyped them over and over. In spite of the heated arguments, the New York group's criticisms did help a lot, and to some extent the enthusiasm and confidence increased."

© 2001 AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age, pg. 159

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LONG-TERM HOPE

Since most of us are born with an abundance of natural desires,
it isn't strange that we often let these far exceed their intended
purpose. When they drive us blindly, or we willfully demand that
they supply us with more satisfactions or pleasures than are
possible or due us, that is the point at which we depart from the
degree of perfection that God wishes for us here on earth. That
is the measure of our character defects, or, if you wish, of our
sins.

TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 65

This is where long-term hope is born and perspective is gained,
both of the nature of my illness and the path of my recovery. The
beauty of A.A. lies in knowing that my life, with God's help, will
improve. The A.A. journey becomes richer, the understanding becomes truth,
the dreams become realities--and today becomes forever.

As I step into the A.A. light, my heart fills with the presence of God.

©Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.©
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Tolerance in Practice

"We found that the principals of tolerance and love had to be emphasized in
actual practice. We can never say (or insinuate) to anyone that he must agree to our formula or be excommunicated. The atheist may stand up in an A.A. meeting still denying the Deity, yet reporting how vastly he has been changed in attitude and outlook. Much experience tells us he will presently change his mind about God, but nobody tells him he must do so  "In such as
atmosphere the orthodox, the unorthodox, and the unbeliever mix happily and usefully together. An opportunity for spiritual growth is open to all."

LETTER, 1940

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"Some day we hope that Alcoholics Anonymous will help the public to
a better realization of the gravity of the alcoholic problem, but we
shall be of little use if our attitude is one of bitterness or
hostility. Drinkers will not stand for it.

After all, our problems were of our own making. Bottles were only a
symbol. Besides, we have stopped fighting anybody or anything. We
have to!"

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Working With Others, pg. 103~

*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

Alcoholism is a progressive illness. We go through the three stages of social drinking, trouble drinking, and merry-go-round drinking. We land in hospitals and jails. We eventually lose our homes, our families, and our self-respect.
Yes, alcoholism is a progressive illness and there are only three ends to
it-the insane asylum, the morgue, or total abstinence. Will I choose not to
take the first drink?

Meditation for the Day

You not only can live a new life but you also can grow in grace
and power and beauty. Reach ever forward and upward after the
things of the spirit. In the animal world, the very form of an
animal changes to enable it to reach that upon which it delights
to feed. Your whole character changes as you reach upward for the things of
the spirit-for beauty, for love, for honesty, for purity,
and for unselfishness. Reaching after these things of the spirit,
your whole nature becomes changed so that you can best receive and delight in the wonders of the abundant life.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may reach forward and upward. I pray that my character may be
changed by this reaching upward for the things of the spirit.

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Thoughts For The Day~*~Growing Up ^*^*^*^*^ June 6, 2007

Happy Birthday Sid

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Growing Up

"How many of us would presume to declare,
'Well, I'm sober and I'm happy.
What more can I want, or do?
I'm fine the way I am.'
We know that the price of such
self-satisfaction is an inevitable backslide,
punctuated at some point
by a very rude awakening.
We have to grow or else deteriorate.
For us, the status quo can only be for today,
never for tomorrow.
Change we must;
we cannot stand still."
Bill W., Box 1980: The AA Grapevine, June 1961
As Bill Sees It, p. 25

Thought to Consider....

The program has helped me grow up enough
to be a kid again.

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WISDOM
When Into Self, Discover Our Motives

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Model

From "The Man Who Mastered Fear":

"Poor health and a complete lack of money necessitated my remaining with Dr. Bob and Anne for very close to a year. It would be impossible for me to pass over this year without mentioning my love for, and my indebtedness to, these two wonderful people who are no longer with us. They made me feel as if I were a part of their family, and so did their children. The example that they and Bill W., whose visits to Akron were fairly frequent, set for me of service to their fellow men imbued me with a great desire to emulate them."

© 2001 AAWS, Inc., Fourth Edition; Alcoholics Anonymous, pgs. 251-52

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ALL WE DO IS TRY

Can He now take them all -- every one?

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 76

In doing Step Six it helped me a lot to remember that I am striving for "spiritual progress." Some of my character defects may be with me for the rest of my life, but most have been toned down or eliminated. All that Step Six asks of me is to become willing to name my defects, claim them as my own, and be willing to discard the ones I can, just for today. As I grow in the program, many of my defects become more objectionable to me than previously and, therefore, I need to repeat Step Six so that I can become happier with myself and maintain my serenity.

©Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.©
*~*~*~*~*^As Bill Sees It^*~*~*~*~*
No Personal Power

"At first, the remedy for my personal difficulties seemed so obvious that I
could not imagine any alcoholic turning the proposition down were it properly presented to him. Believing so firmly that Christ can do anything, I had the unconscious conceit to suppose that He would do everything through me--right then and in the manner I chose. After six long months, I had to admit that not a soul had surely laid hold of the Master--not excepting myself.
"This brought me to the good healthy realization that there were plenty of
situations left in the world over which I had no personal power--that if I
was so ready to admit that to be the case with alcohol, so I must make the
same admission with respect to much else. I would have to be still and know
that He, not I, was God."

LETTER, 1940

*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book Quote ^*~*~*~*~*

"Remember that we deal with alcohol, cunning, baffling, powerful!
Without help it is too much for us. But there is One who has all
power that One is God. May you find Him now!"

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, How It Works, Page 58~

*~*~*~*^Twenty Four Hours A Day^*~*~*~*
A.A. Thought for the Day

Drinking is the way we alcoholics express our maladjustments to life. I believe that I was a potential alcoholic from the start. I had an inferiority complex. I didn't make friends easily. There was a wall between me and other people. And I was lonely. I was not well adjusted to life. Did I drink to escape from myself?

Meditation for the Day

According to the varying needs of each person, so does each person think of God. It is not necessary that you think of God as others think of Him, but it is necessary that you think of Him as supplying what you personally need. The weak need God's strength. The strong need God's tenderness. The tempted and fallen need God's saving grace. The righteous need God's pity for sinners. The lonely need God as a friend. The fighters for righteousness need a leader in God. You may think of God in any way you wish. We usually do not turn to God until we need Him.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may think of God as supplying my needs. I pray that I will bring all my problems to Him for help in meeting them.

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